5 Signs She’s Not Enjoying Your Love Makingby Raj Akhmed 01/09/2015 06:12:00 0 comments 1 Views
Okay! So here you’re with your sweet lovi lovi and you are at it, you’ve done all the foreplay and it’s about going down but then she begins showing some signs of displeasure. What could be the problem?
Or better still, you could be going at it and she doesn’t show any sign of displeasure but pretends to be enjoying it, how can you tell you’re not just wasting your energy?
There are always some feedback that women will exhibit when they don’t enjoy the sex, just like when they enjoy it. Here are 5 signs you can use to detect this.
#1 What she says.
Again, obvious. She will usually say “slow down” or otherwise, give instructions on what to do, rather than saying she doesn’t like it. Simply follow what she says.
#2 Pulling away.
This is not always a sign she doesn’t like it. Sometimes, a woman will pull away when the pleasure or sensation is too intense and she needs a break. If it feels like a reflexive movement, chances are you were probably too aggressive and hurt her, or otherwise did something that caused discomfort. Take note of what causes this, and don’t do it again!
#3 Trying to maneuver you or herself.
Sometimes, she will move one or both of you around to get a better angle or a more pleasing position. She knows her body and where she wants you to be, so let her move you around and learn from where she puts you. You might want to aim at this position in your next encounter.
#4 Expressing pain.
What is too gentle for some women to really get pleasure will be painful for others. You have to judge how sensitive she is to touch, especially when it comes to things like biting and hair pulling. Let that dictate how aggressive you should be.
#5 Being too relaxed.
Sex isn’t supposed to be comfortable. If she’s not moaning and wriggling around a bit, you probably aren’t having that much of an effect on her. Try changing your position and looking for changes in the aforementioned signals.