8 Reasons You Should Not Be Friends With Your Ex Boyfriendby Raj Akhmed 19/04/2017 05:16:00 0 comments 1 Views
Whether he broke your heart or you mutually ended it, it takes a longer time for a woman to move on from her boyfriend.
So there you are holding on to him and allowing yourself to be put on a pedestal but for nothing. Being friends with your Ex boyfriend immediately after your breakup is nonsensical because you need to learn to live without him. This is a person you probably loved or strongly liked and now you want to pretend that you don’t want the commitment?
Here are 8 reasons you should not be friends with your ex boyfriend.
1. You will keep missing them
You are a human being. A human being that has emotions and being friends with your ex means you think you can still be around him. Reality is you will miss so much every time you see him you will always wind up back from where you came from, absolute misery.
2. Just friends is impossible
You really think you’ll move from “hey babe” to “hey” that’s it? It is going to be hard to not be angry at him for not wanting to be emotional. He will have the right to not show you love or emotions and he may want to get some good loving from you then leave you there hanging.
3. When will you move on?
There are amazing guys out there. It will be unfair to you and to the amazing prince charming that is working to get your attention but you’re still stuck on your ex. Do not miss out on great guys because old and new does not mix honey.
4. It’s going to suck when they move on
So you’ve been there offering your great positive vibes and emotional support while he’s been moving on. Remember he has the right to move on and when he does it will hurt you more than the breakup itself.
5. You’ll feel so much better when you get over him
If he is the one who ended it then you best start working on yourself and cut him off. Every day you do not initiate contact then you are moving on to a better you.
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6. They will string you along
He will not refuse your friendship because he probably wants to keep you there in case his plans don’t work out. Refuse to be a B plan or come from being the only one to just another girl.
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7. Keep trying to get him back
In as much as you try to maintain an amicable friendship you are probably still holding on this friendship because you want him back. This is where you trade your dignity for nothing when you keep trying to get him back. You may do it subconsciously or knowingly but this may make you look needy or annoying.
8. He needs to put some respek on your name
A man who never thought your life would go on without him needs to have a rude awakening. Surprise him by avoiding any form of contact with him and at the very least he will not only miss you but he will respect you again.